3 Things I’d Do Differently in Our Homeschool Journey

The choices we make, and the experiences we face shape us into the people that we become. And yet, like many people, I often look back on certain seasons or moments in my life and wish I could change it somehow. Homeschooling is one of those seasons that I often reflect upon. I would NEVER change our decision to homeschool, given the chance. I would, however, do things a bit differently…..

1. I would go independent sooner.

After years in the charter system, I was comfortable. And I hadn’t really bothered to look into other options in regards to homeschooling. Our routine worked for us. Until it didn’t.

A very knowledgable friend of mine advised that we go independent, and let me tell you, it was life changing. I experienced true homeschool freedom for the first time. She and I began our own co-ops held within our homes. And those days, with those sweet kiddos and amazing mamas are some of my most treasured memories.

Those years were where I truly learned, and grew. I was no longer relying on a public charter school. And it was amazing.

2. I would be less timid.

I was constantly questioning myself. From the curriculum I had chosen, to the co-ops we joined, absolutely everything was a question in my mind. Many nights I lay awake, overwhelmed by the constant battle in my head. I know now that those thoughts were not of God. I know, (and knew then), that He had called us to homeschool our kids, and yet those thoughts still consumed me. I leaned on my dear friend tremendously. She was so strong and steady in her own homeschooling journey, and I admired her deeply. She always had wisdom to share, and encouragement to give. She truly took my hand and led me. For that, I will always be grateful.

She’s one of the many reasons that I hope to be that support system for another mama.

3. I would stress less, and enjoy more.

Am I doing enough? Am I doing too much? Are they actually learning? Is this curriculum sufficient? Ugh….

Looking back, I wish I would have trusted my gut more. Trusted the leading of God. I am a stress-cadet in all aspects of life. But in this, I wish I would have sat back and enjoyed it more. I DID enjoy it. But, I wish I would have relaxed and enjoyed it instead of always waiting for the next thing to check off of our to-do list.

The days are fleeting, and the years pass much too quickly. And let me tell you, friend, God is going to accomplish His will in our kids lives even if that one last worksheet isn’t completed.